Are you comfortable?


Have you ever noticed, we rarely say "I'm undecided"?

We’re much more likely to say “I’m on the fence.”

I think that phrase has stuck around because it so perfectly captures the psychological precariousness and discomfort of being uncommitted or undecided.

Don’t stay on the fence about One-Story September. Join us here

I spent an uncomfortable early August, swithering* about what to do for StoryADay September. Would I repeat StoryADay May’s prompts, as I usually do, or would I do something new.?

(Anyone who knows me could have placed a solid bet on ‘something new’!)

As soon as the decision was made, I was amazed by how quickly things came together, from my focus, to the solutions to all the little logistical questions involved in putting a thing like this together.

A Little Housekeeping: if you’re using an iPhone and Paypal to register for the challenge, I've been told there is a quirk that makes it tricky to finish the process. While I’m looking for a fix, rest assured, it will work fine on a laptop/desktop!)


The Magic Of Saying Yes

Making a commitment to do something – even a hard something – makes it weirdly easier to take action. Making the commitment frees your attention to focus on the task you’ve committed to.

“I want to commit to focused writing time. Thanks for helping that happen.” - Marta, registered for One-Story Sept

As soon as you commit, you stop wasting energy on IF you’re going to do it and start to strategize about HOW you’re going to do it.

“I will check in every day and spend at least 15 minutes on it. I can do at least that, since it’s time way better spent than on Facebook.” -Taryn, registered for One-Story September

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Making the decision allows you to relax into the anticipation of a month spent loving your creative self.

“I’m committing to myself, the writer, that I’m going to go at this thing as best as I can, - Taryn

…and it allows you to relax into trusting the process.

“I have absolutely no idea what story I want to write yet though, …and this does worry me but I am sure you will be there, ready with some inspiration “ - Crystal registered for One-Story September

I hope that, by now, you’re starting to feel a little uncomfortable, perched up there on your fence of indecision. I hope that you’ll decide to climb down on our side, and spend the next month with us, working on a story, building your confidence (especially around the “show, don’t tell” advice.).

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  • If you’re sick of ‘maybe’ and ready to commit, click here

Hope to see you inside.

Keep writing,

Julie

P. S. If your decision is ‘not this time’ and you don’t want to hear more about this challenge you can click here and I’ll try not to email you about it again.

*Swithering is another one of those Scots words I like to throw in occasionally. Can you guess what it means, from the context?


Julie Duffy

Hi, I'm Julie Duffy, founder & director of StoryADay. Every year since 2010 I've challenged writers like you to prove to themselves that they can write more (and better) than they think, during the StoryADay May challenge. During the rest of the year, StoryADay supports you with the StoryAWeek newsletter (writing lessons & prompts), a popular podcast, blog posts, mini-challenges, courses, and a members' community. StoryADay May has become a fixture on the writing calendar, and the lively community is one of Writer's Digest's 101 Best Websites for Writers. Join me for info, workshops, challenges & courses, and of course, the StoryAWeek newsletter.

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